The Real Inception!!!!!

The title remain inconclusive...

Lot of things are happening around and they were apt to be titled this way...

To be on a more personal note I am not finding it worth enough to stay in the lifestyle that has taken the center stage of every individual....

I watched a movie named "Aashayein" and in the end it conveyed one simple message. A duel between "was" and "is", between "to be" or "not to be"... The movie used concept of death to really bring out the reality or the real meaning of life...

Fast real fast is what it is now used to describe the "need" ...Every one needs things or the output very fast to save time but then the time that is saved is redirected to another "need"...Wow why so eager to finish of time when you have lot of things to do in this saved time... Not to forget the fact that "Wants" have replaced "Needs". There used to be a thin line between them some time back, but in this age of technological and economical upwardness the line seemed to be somewhat distorted and people are easily converging those two into one. All things seems to be affordable now, but then What is actually affordable is still a question to ponder upon?? I seriously doubt whether "mental peace" fall in that list...

Slowly, ya the word is correct "Slowly" is what I am made to think what's the outcome of all this fast forwardness... and I am slowly loosing the real concept around which this world is shaping out. Am I being left out?? or am I afraid to join this run for time??? Like the movie Matrix , I am waiting to be unplugged. Now you think I am really insane but my insanity is not driven by some other factor other than that I am insane by choice for this world not that world is making me insane. BTW what is Sanity??? Does Sanity means do things what others do or think the way what other people think... Then do we need a brain if we all are programmed to think the same way?? 

Why I want to be seriously unplugged???

Need a reason for that?? Then here are some...

* Isn't life a compromise: compromise for the real dream with the real world reality?? Or is it really a real world reality??

* Happiness quotient is defined on a world scale where simple and calm thinking is replaced by a greater world thinking....

*  Being individual is to be someone out of group rather than one more brain to think the same way...

The reasons can go on on but then who is gonna number them when it always comes to the process of  reducing the number of constraints...

Am I thinking too much or am I dreaming???
Wherein all the projections of this dream life is converging on me???
Am I dreaming for myself or am I in some one else's dream???
Might be thinking this person has gone mad?? But then that thought is yours, not mine....

Zreecu's 1-2-3 liners

• Things change when they change ;-) But what that matters is whether people change along with them   ;-) .. Its quite hard to get the natural persona back ...So why does then people change when the persona they were once proud of changes with those things ;-) 

• Quotes are worth reading when they come from someone else's experience ;-)

• I write, I read, I think, but these actions seems to be mutually exclusive ;-)

• I think, I write, but then all my thoughts aren't written always ;-)

• I read , I think, but the things I read aren't the things I end up thinking about ;-)

• This page seems to be quite common to everyone's experience but then experience is an degree of individualistic thoughts....Similar to  "what I see is not what you want to see?".

• Once I used to be serious, but then I don't seriously remember when that "once" was ;-)

• I have met many people but "many" is just a term to describe the number, in the core they all end up being of the same mentality only ;-) 

• You can copy any or all of these but will that really make you "me"???

•  I haven't conquered the world, I am not the richest and definitely I am not perfect, but all I know is I am the best I can be by being myself and my dreams are not inspired by others.

• Everyone's trying to chase dreams. But have they ever stopped and realized what exactly their dreams are.. Most of the people are working hard to earn more, live a high status life, earn a reputation in the society but that is what "Most " of the people do.So where's the difference. Individual dreams are still in their locker rooms and sadly "Most" of them have lost the key to it. 

•   "LIFE" is a four lettered question with an four lettered answer "LIVE".  

• RELATION is a one way bridge. Everyone expects the "FLOW" to be towards them.

• Its sometimes better to keep some people as strangers rather than ending up on the wrong side by considering them as friends.But then whom to choose???

• I chose to remain silent, at least I made a choice...and for what?? Don't ask me.I can't answer that coz I am Silent ;-)
  

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As You Came Into My Life

When we walk the walk of life,It's not that hard to know
That each life has a share of happiness and sorrows to share 
And for that in each life you come across some one called a Friend...

A simple way to show my gratitude to some great pals who came 

across my life and made it worth living...For all my dear friends...

  As You Came Into My Life...

As we tread along,Into our life

A little rain will fall,

But if we have a friend, we can bear it all...

For a friend is an umbrella, 

To be held above our head...

And help us think about, 

Those bright sunny days instead...

As we tread along, into our life

A little wind will blow,

But If we have a friend, we can always let it go...

For a friend is an parachute,

To guide and glide along with us...

And help us dream about,

Those light lit runway of life...

As we tread along, into our life

Like leaves things will fall,

But if we have friend, we know we can call...

For a friend is like a safety net,

In which we will be caught...

And help us to hope for,

Those best moments which awaits...

And along the way Into my life,

You came as my friend...

For I know I have a friend to share,

Experiences old or new...

For a friend is no less than god,

A person who is loving and caring,

Who sees my best qualities and imperfections

And knows, I am their friend too.....

Happy Friendship Day Dear...
Thanks for making everyday of my life a Friendship Day....

Being Myself

Asked myself why I let them wander so close?
When there wasn't any scope or chances...
For whatever they do or have done to hurt me,
I wonder why I don't have any complaints...

Life isn't always about getting what you desire,

And that I came to know and understand long back..

Even though it was painstaking and heart piercing,

But I made it as simple as popping things from a stack...

For all that we all have been through,

And for all that we all have talked about...

I came to know it may not seem to be enough,

When it came to letting those feelings inside out...

May be I always was just a second fiddle,

But for me it wasn't just a choice from a set of  options...

Just like an unsolved puzzle or a riddle,

For me these relations are still mysterious ones...

I don't know whether or where I went wrong,

May be I wasn't the only one to prefer...

May be I wasn't there where I belong...

This is all luck, whether I was made to falter???

And now the answer for what I asked myself,

I don have any regrets for what I have been...

Coz, I was always true to my heart n my own self,

And I have seen what there was to be seen...

But whatever it is, I am happy to be,

The one what others expect me to be,

The one I always was and always will be...

Just a milestone they came across in life....

Teaching Life

Last week was quite fascinating and wonderful.Had a glimpse of school life.Not mine of course.Had to give our software training in a school. Was quite amusing to watch those kids play and have fun. The things we miss the most I suppose.The training was for CBSE teachers. So once again in their life they had to go thru the classroom learning process. More than anything it was the experience that they shared with us mattered. It was so wonderful to hear their accounts of their experiences with the new generation and how they have to be on their toes to get in touch with the latest developments.

They were happy to be at the driving seat of the class when the session of doubt clearance started. They had thousands of doubts and I wondered as it wud be just the subset of the doubts they would be facing when they start teaching how to use CAD to children.But it was quite knowledgeable as we cud look forward to the area of improvements and modifications to suit the students need.

When the students turned teachers shared their experiences we couldn't get ourselves out of the nostalgia about how we used to be back in school days. They were worried in certain cases and happy for certain ones related to the new generations studying techniques. They were concerned about the competition for scoring higher marks as they know the maximum a student wud get wud be 100, but is that enough. Is it really what a child need, just a near to three figure mark in every subject. How much do they keep the lessons learned. For example: A teacher teaching 12 th standard said, the students are taught all the laws of physics, abt momentum and it's causes. With higher velocity the momentum increases and it takes more time n more distance to stop a vehicle. Do kids learn this lesson(Why only kids , do the grown ups??). I think the answer is plain no, coz then there wud be no rash driving accidents. So its just not enough to put things in the paper but also students need to mark up in their minds too.

Like this a lot of real life examples were given. But then why are they the only people concerned about these. Doesn't the parents have greater role to play. All they ever do is to encourage to score more marks n unknowingly the same kids would end up with lesser marks when it comes to the attitude towards real life.

It was quite an revealing experience for me to get along with the teachers who continues to teach us in one way or the another all along their life. God bless them.

Pen Down....

Eyes glued to the bars of the window pane,
I amassed the strength to switch the pen back on.
As if I got something to scribble but then again..
I ran out of words to title the beginning,
Dunno how many times I repeated the act,
Switching on and off out of sheer frustration.

The blank paper on my letter pad,
Still untouched and still so blank with whiteness.
Nothing comes to my head,
As I tried to think of things to write.
Right through the dark night,
I Juggled with phrases 'can I' or 'can't I'??

Would this be the beginning of the end?
Even if it is, what would it end? I dunno!!!
I've come to a point where my feelings,
No longer just jump off my thoughts
and get themselves inscribed on the paper.

I stared down again,
And pushed my hand again,
Still, nothing but dead silence.
I placed the pen down on the paper.
Didn't even bothered to shut the pen off .
I'll let it dry and leave the paper blank.
I think it's better that way..

A Unique Wish.....

Dis time of de year when all those new year forwards fill up ur inbox with all kind of wishes, I tried to be little more sensitive and creative... Collecting some thoughts which we already have read or heard som1 saying but cease to remember in dis busy life....It wasn't so tough to gather it(Some from thoughts, some from experience, some from my dear frnds, last but not least by googling.... ) but it was certainly a bit difficult to arrange it but wasn't impossible... I wanted to end dis new year on a satisfaction that I have done something that's quite thoughtful rather than just forwarding some wish mail.... hope dis lengthy collection is worth it's length... And I really hope this to be an unique wish u receive this year...


* Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

* Memorize your favorite poem.

* Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

* When you say, "I love you", mean it.

* When you say, "I'm sorry", look the person in the eye.

* Believe in love at first sight.

* Never laugh at anyone's dreams.

* Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

* In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

* Talk slow, but think quick.

* Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

* Call your Mom and Dad.

* Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.

* When you lose, don't lose the lesson.

* Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; Responsibility for all your actions.

* Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

* When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

* Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.

* Spend some time alone.

* Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.

* Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.

* Read more books and watch less TV.

* Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll get to enjoy it a second time.

* Trust in God but lock your car. (Superb One!!!! Isn't it???)

* A loving atmosphere in your home is so important. Do all you can to create a tranquil harmonious home.

* In disagreements with loved ones, deal with the current situation. Don't bring up the past.

* Read between the lines. (Hope u got something between these lines..)

* Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality.

* Be gentle with the earth.

* Once a year, go someplace you've never been before.

* If you make a lot of money, put it to use helping others while you are living. That is wealth's greatest satisfaction.

* Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes the blessing.

* Remember that the best relationship is one where your love for each other is greater than your need for each other.

* Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

* Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.

--- And most importantly -----

* Pray. There's immeasurable power in it.


Hope these lines are worth their words......
Happy New year..................
God Bless U n Fulfill All Ur Dreams...
With loads of luv
Sreekumar, Zreecu or Sreeku..
Or whatever you wish to call me....

Happiness

"People take different roads seeking fulfillment n happiness.Just bcoz they're not on your road doesn't mean they've gotten lost"

Quite a thought provoking quote if u are a thinking kind of person.The thing is that you shouldn't compare you with anybody else in any matter.Why I say so.. Just think every person is unique and that makes definition of happiness different for each n every person. Thinking that the other person isn't enjoying his life by traversing a way other than yours isn't really true always...

Think for a moment, there might be a chance that there's a guy working along with you, same in all respects(i.e position, financial assets n so on).. but you may think that he is either more happier or less happier than you. But its your thinking point of view, not his. He might think the same way for you too.So the basic underlying fact is that when it comes to happiness each person have his own quotient that is totally different from every other person. And the thing that we try to measure happiness makes it all far too complex. Each person have his own scale and when they try to measure things with some scale other than theirs then it's quite obvious that the scale tend to give wrong readings.

We always tend to term the time either as happy or bad. Why so? We can't know what happiness is, if we haven't have any idea how sad times react. The bad thing about happy times is that it will end someday and the good thing about bad times is that it will also end someday. So it's a cycle.. Nobody has remained happy forever and same goes for being unhappy...It's just the way life treats. You might have an example of somebody being happy always or the other way round.. That all depends on how the person presents himself in front of everyone.. He might have 1000 issues that's concerning him in deep but he presents a smiling face to the world.. Then there's a person who have lost all hope and don't know how to present himself will be kinna gloomy always. So whom do you prefer for a company?

The thing that matters is what you think about How happy you actually are? And whether you wanna make others happy? As it is said the only thing that always grow is the smile.... Just wear a smile even though that smile may be hollow but at least it may bring a smile to some other face.

My Old Friends...

My heart filled with laughter,
And eyes moved to tears...
With so many vivid memories,
Spanning across all those wonderful years...
The very words of compassion,
And the soulful actions so kind...
The world seems so worth living and blessed,
When the memories of old friends comes to my mind..

Never got enough time to count my blessings,
And got all the time to shuffle my dreams...
Landed in a place where stars always shined,
Soothing lights calms the soul deep within...
When the memories of old friends comes to my mind...

I count my friends among all the guides on my path,
Who loved me and blessed me with so much faith...
Taught me how to laugh and how to live n dream,
Now in the last when I reach my heaven...
I know, I will find that I had a better heaven than this,
Built with togetherness by dear old friends of mine...

Had a wonderful time @ Sandeep's Bachelor Party..Guys it was so special to see u all around and we had a really good time together.. Never felt we have grown up,we were just like what we were @ college....Thanks guys for making this adventure so wonderful and unforgettable.. love u guys..

Hinduism---Is it really an "ism"

I went through a brilliant article that gives a vast idea of differences between Hinduism being a Religion and it being a Culture. I felt everyone should read this.As said by Sadhguru...

The Hindu Way Of Life: Science Of Salvation

Sadhguru

There really is no such thing as Hindu-ism. This term and concept are of recent coinage.

The Hindu civilisation was born on the banks of the river Sindhu, known as the Indus today. When the Persians came, they introduced the term ‘Hindu’, derived from the Sanskrit word Sindhu, to denote the people who live beyond the river Sindhu. It was a geographical and cultural identity. It had never been a religious identity. Basically, the culture was oriented towards realizing one’s full potential.

Hindu was never an ‘ism’, and the attempt to organize it as a religion cannot succeed because the Hindu way of life, Sanatana Dharma or universal law, is inclusive by nature. It is not an organized belief system; it is a science of salvation.

In the past, religion was far more important to people than it is now, but still there were no theocratic states in this culture; the ruler had his religion and the subjects had the freedom to follow theirs. There was no conflict.

There is no belief system to the Hindu way of life. You can believe in God or not. Individuals can work out their own way to salvation. If there are five people in your family, each one can worship a god of their choice, or not worship and still be a good Hindu. The Hindu culture is rooted in the spiritual ethos of each individual working towards ultimate liberation as the fundamental goal in life.

In the East, spirituality and religion were never an organized process. Organization was only to the extent of making spirituality available to everybody – not for conquest. A farmer worshiped his plough, a fisherman worshiped his boat; people worshiped whatever aspect of life they related to most, and that was perfectly fine. Essentially, in the East, religion is about you, it is not about God. Religion is about your liberation. God is just one more stepping stone that you can use or skip towards your ultimate liberation.

The essential purpose of the God-belief is to create reverence in a person. What you worship is not important. It is not about liking something or disliking it. The object of reverence is irrelevant. If you make reverence the quality of your life, then you become far more receptive to life. Life will happen to you in bigger ways.
Hindu culture recognizes human welfare and freedom as being of paramount importance as against the prominence of God. People understood that God is of our making and not the other way around. Hence the whole god-making technology evolved into the science of consecrating various types of forms, energy forms and spaces.

Hindu gods and goddesses are numerous, from the subtlest to the weirdest. Everything has been explored. The best compliment for this culture came from Mark Twain who had heard so much about Indian mysticism that he decided to travel to India and spend some time here. He said: “Anything that can ever be done either by man or by God has been done in this land.” If you explore mysticism in India, it is incredible because it does not come from an organized belief system. It happens as a scientific means to explore dimensions beyond the physical.

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I hope this article was worth reading....

The Sea Shore.....

Subtle remains of home carvings washed away by waves,
Footprints of souls, that slowly fades away in times...
Fragrance of infinite stories of love and togetherness,
Drowning imaginations of thousands of moonlit dreams...

De quite humming of relentless pain and heartache songs,
De quite whispers of unknown smile of happiness...
Every single expression of life coming to its true colors,
Bringing forth the nostalgia of countless cherished moments ...

Alongside the Ocean,the shore comes alive with a bliss,
Taking us to the unseen depth of premonitions n mysteries.
As Alice in wonderland, we tumble down the memory lane,
Till a naughty wave kisses our feet,getting us back to reality ...

No matter whatever good or bad happened in the past ,
We know that far across those overwhelming waves,
Far deep into the horizon where sky n earth seems to meet,
Hopes of new life, a new dawn and a new dream awaits...

Pool Of Memories....

Got it quite late that everything happens for a reason,
Even the friends u make are meant for a season...
And as the next spring comes along they leave,
To a place far far enough ,you find hard to reach...

We confess, we no longer share the same touch,
We convey, we have fallen apart far too much...
We are right,when we say together we missed lot of things,
But no one really knows what really happened...

Who is to blame for and on whose side the fault is?
Thinking again n again doesn't changes anything...
As it has never had coz it has all fallen back,
In the pool of memories and memories they will remain...

Far 2 Many Choices......

Sometimes the present will be held responsible for what you have become, coz its in present where you are gonna make a choice...May be sometimes the past will be held responsible for what you have become,coz of choices that were made by you in the past...And sometimes the future will be held responsible for what you turn out to be, coz of the choices it will offer you to choose from... But its always you who will be responsible for what you have become...

Choices make you get what you deserve to get by making that choices, Choices make you loose what that's choices decides not to be yours. And what you choose is what that decides between your past present and future. And that same choices differentiates the day as present past or future. Choices in the past to learn from,choices in the present to choose from, and choices in the future for making a better choice..

God gives .. man accepts or rejects,But its life's logic you end up with what you have right now,coz you choose to accept or reject.. You choose or you choose not to choose,But the choices are already made by you. So, what if you want other options...Nothing coz there are no other options when you already made a choice... Bit confusing isn't it,but that's how life should be. You will never know but you always thought you were always very sure, And that degree of surety is what that makes your choices...

So choose wisely.. Life is not a relay race. Its just one dash and you dont have to hold too many batons coz in this run for life if you choose to hold on to too many things you will leave the most important one..That's the Life itself.Life:That's something you can't be sure of but you thought you can or will be..But when you get to know this truth you would have already lived your life..So thanks for reading this not so sure blunder.. but I made a choice to put it forward. And you chose to read this..hhmmm!

But will you make the real choice...
I have made mine ..When will u be making urs....